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Parent Express for 06-Nov-2010
Recently several friends and a few strangers remarked, "I can't believe it's November already!" I agree. The 11th month startles many of us into realizing that the holidays are around the corner. Thanksgiving—soon!
At the PCI, we emphasize an appreciative approach to parenting, so that gratefulness acts as a major focal point—every day—not only on Thanksgiving. With awareness of our blessings means we attend to what works well in our lives and in our parenting. Thankful for what works, we naturally keep learning what works for us! In this exciting process, we become increasingly capable of successfully addressing challenges. Equipping our children with an "attitude of gratitude" definitely supports their spiritual growth and emotional health. But also consider: Thankful children know how to navigate life's storms better than entitled children do.
The articles in this issue of The Parent Express, "Teaching Our Children Gratefulness" and "Meeting Our Children's Needs" offer reminders and resources to help children become self-actualized and grateful—a winning combination—any month of the year.
I (and all of us at the PCI) wish you a meaningful and joyous holiday season. We will "see" you in 2011 when The Parent Express resumes with our January issue.
Gloria DeGaetano, Founder and CEO
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Teaching Children Gratefullness
by Gloria DeGaetano
We teach our children to say "Thank You," to write messages of appreciation when they receive gifts, and to express gratitude toward their teachers by kindnesses throughout the school year. Gratefulness is demonstrated by these actions.
Gratefulness is a way of being in the world.
Learning this "attitude of gratitude" can be an exciting adventure. It may be a journey of a lifetime, but many steps can be taken in childhood. Here are four key ideas to try with your children:
Say What You Appreciate
Guide Children to Express Their Thanks Often
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PCI Certified Parent Coach® Mary Scribner Contributes to New Book Read Mary's engaging essay about adolescence, "The Teen Years—Can a Steel Stud Look Like a Pimple?" in When One Door Closes—Reflections from Women on Life's Turning Points.
Mary Scribner, a registered nurse and PCI Certified Parent Coach®, has a passion for motivating and inspiring people. She supports struggling parents with a heart-centered approach combined with professional expertise. Her career as a maternal-child health expert evolved after years of third world travel and recognizing family health disparities in her own backyard. Working with those most in need, Mary designed and implemented health care programs for families in crisis and with special needs. Mary co-created A Wild Ride to support parents of challenging children.
When One Door Closes is a fascinating and diverse collection of 55 short essays and poems written by 53 women. The authors' share their personal stories of significant turning points in their lives or times when they found themselves on the threshold of a major decision or a life changing event. Thirty-five percent of the sales of this book go toward supporting non-profit women's organizations providing assistance to women in times of great need or transition For more information, please visit the Reflections from Women Web site.
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Meeting Our Children's Needs Reduces Stress and Helps to Minimize Discipline Problems
by Barb Bushey
I have used Dr. William Glasser's five basic needs and Gloria DeGaetano's Vital Five® (DeGaetano, G., 2004, Parenting Well in a Media Age) to assist me with these problems and situations. We all have five basic needs according to Dr. William Glasser. The first need is the need for survival this includes air, water, food, shelter, and good health. If this need is not being met, we will do anything possible to get it met. The four other basic needs are love and belonging, power, fun, and freedom. You may be saying to yourself what does this have to do with my child's behavior.
These needs are directly related to both our behavior as parents and our children's behavior. If our needs or our children's needs are not met, we will behave in ways to get these met. This behavior can be positive or negative and especially as a child, we don't care what these behaviors are as long as we get these needs met.
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