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Parent Express for 18-Jun-2009
We wish all dads a Happy Father's Day! Please check out the NPR interview (see News Section) featuring Keith Morton of www.fatherdad.com, who is a PCI Parent Coach in training. I think you will very much enjoy it.
Summer and the end of school days often bring a temptation to fall back on television, video, and video games to help "bored" kids keep busy. This issue of Parent Express is full of practical ideas to help you balance screen use with other important activities over the summer. Our featured article by Margann Duke, PCI Parent Coach in training, gives us a terrific review of an excellent book, Generation Text—not only valuable for parents, but as Margann points out, a great read for teens as well.
Summer is a great time to start a new family tradition: family book readings and discussions about important matters. They still matter—even to generation text kids!
The PCI will be on vacation in July. We will resume sending out Parent Express in August. "See" you then! In the meantime…
Happy Summer Vacation (and happy reading, as well)!
Gloria DeGaetano, Founder and CEO
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Early application ends August 15, 2009. Applications must be received by August 15 in order to receive the $500.00 tuition discount. Spaces are limited. Early applications receive first consideration.
Please send in the basic application as your first step. Download the application here. Once we receive this document, we will contact you for a phone interview.
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Making the Inevitable Impossible: A Book Review of Generation Text
by Margann Duke
A new book by clinical psychologist Michael Osit, entitled Generation Text: Raising Well Adjusted Kids in an Age of Instant Everything, explores why parents need to fight the influence of popular culture and explains how they can do it. The book describes how our current culture has undermined parental authority; changed the developmental tasks of socialization and individuation for teens; and contributed to the escalation of family conflict, personal distress, and learning difficulties for kids today.
The "culture of access and excess" is the foundational theme for this book and Dr. Osit illustrates how this culture has undermined the family. Today's kids have been raised in a time when none of us really needs to wait or work for most of life's conveniences. We are bombarded daily with too much information and too many choices. This plethora of choices and access to anything, at any time, has set parents up to fight many more battles than our parents would have ever encountered with us! To teach our children the lessons that we learned somewhat automatically, we must now become the agents of deprivation and hardship (at least in our children's eyes). In addition, children of today faces increased pressure to perform, to look a certain way and to succeed in material terms. They are faced with so many distractions in the forms of media "tools" that it is a wonder they learn to focus at all. And, compounding the struggle, they have experienced a marked decrease in both the quality and quantity of personal relationships in their immediate families, extended families, and community.
Dr. Osit points to two major trends which have contributed towards our acceptance of access and excess. The first is parental guilt and the second is modeling down.
Why do we feel guilty? Parents receive constant messages encouraging us to give our kids the latest and the best, couched in the persuasive language of advertising and supported by our competitive American culture. There is always something better: a better computer, phone, tutor, sport, vacation, etc. that will somehow guarantee our children's success in life…or at least that is the promise we are sold over and over again. In addition, parents feel guilty about working too long, being too stressed, and not being able to keep up, themselves. Modeling down refers to the phenomenon of kids being given things, both possessions and privileges, at increasingly younger ages. If kids get used to a sophisticated, expensive lifestyle as children, then what will they expect from adulthood? From the standpoint of development, it can be a blow to self-esteem to have to go "backwards" when as a young adult you cannot take care of yourself in the manner you have become accustomed to. When kids receive privileges or information that they are developmentally unprepared for it may become emotionally harmful or even lead to physically harmful situations.
FatherDad on NPR
Texting May Be Taking a Toll
Media Research: The Black Box
Four Proven Ways to Live Productively with Screen Technology
My research over the past 20 years shows that when parents focus on these four positive paths their children learn to be in control of all forms of screen technologies.
Path #1: Manage Screen Time
Path #2: Set Up Your Home to be a "Media Literate" Environment
Path # 3: Teach Critical Viewing Skills
Path #4: Use Your Creativity
Back issues of Parent Express are available on the PCI Web site. There you can read articles by Gloria DeGaetano and PCI Certified Parent Coaches®, and easily send past issues to friends and colleagues via e-mail.
"In my search for ways to reunite my soul with my roles as parent and parent educator, I discovered the PCI! My training as a Parent Coach through the PCI set in motion for me a radically invigorating process of professional renewal and personal transformation. I continue to be inspired by the marvelous synthesis of theories, ideas, resources, and practical strategies that characterize the PCI coaching model and render it so effective in working with parents today. I received everything I needed to create my own coaching practice and to coach well. No detail was missed and the opportunities for continuing support and development from the PCI are unparalleled. Thank you PCI!"
—Dulcie Gretton, PCI Certified Parent Coach®
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